It’s wild to think we’ve officially been living this life on the road for three months now. Some days it feels like we just left Duluth, and other days it feels like this has been our normal forever. December gave us plenty of miles, meaningful family time, and space to reflect on just how much has changed.

On Monday, December 8th, we packed up our quiet desert boondocking spot and headed back to my brother and sister-in-law’s driveway. Tuesday was spent prepping the RV to sit unoccupied for nine days—one of those practical tasks that’s not glamorous but very much part of this lifestyle.
Early Wednesday morning, December 10th, we flew from Mesa, Arizona to St. Cloud, Minnesota. The flight itself was uneventful, but the drive north to Duluth quickly reminded us where we were. Snowy roads, questionable rental car tires, and winter conditions made for a tense start. As we crested the big hill into Duluth and Lake Superior came into view, I wondered if I’d feel relief or homesickness. Honestly, I didn’t feel much of either.
It was wonderful to see family and friends again, but the bitter cold and lack of sunshine were a quick reminder of why winter in northern Minnesota has never been my favorite.


Our nine days in Duluth were full in the best way. Trygg visited his old school on Friday and spent time playing in the snow with friends like no time had passed. Saturday was Derek’s uncle’s celebration of life, and Sunday morning we returned to our church, greeted by so many familiar faces.

That afternoon, Trygg had two friends over to bake Christmas treats and play—something that felt wonderfully normal in the middle of a very not-normal season of life. Homeschool continued throughout the week, and Derek went into the office each day, which felt strange for all of us. We packed in as much time with friends and family as we could, knowing how quickly the days would slip by.
On Friday, December 17th, we traveled down to the Twin Cities with my parents so we could all fly back together. About three hours before departure, we learned our flight had been canceled. Normally that kind of news would cause stress, but our newly adopted laid-back approach worked in our favor. We didn’t panic—we pivoted. Thankfully, we found a later flight with a different airline. It wasn’t perfect, and we arrived at a different airport much later than planned, but we made it safely back to Apache Junction.
Back in Arizona, we jumped straight into a week full of family time at my brother and sister-in-law’s home – something that felt especially meaningful this time of year. We were able to spend Christmas with family we don’t usually get to see because of distance, a gift made possible by the flexibility and mobility of our current lifestyle. My aunt and uncle from South Dakota arrived Sunday evening, followed by my aunt and uncle from San Diego on Tuesday. The days were filled with hikes, side-by-side rides, incredible food, and nightly games and conversations.




This lifestyle continues to remind us how grateful we are for the freedom to be where we want—and where we’re needed. The week went by far too quickly. Sunday morning we said our goodbyes, restocked supplies, packed up, and headed back to the desert for a quiet week of boondocking.
As much as we loved our time with family, we were all looking forward to settling back into our routine—school, work, and a few peaceful days in the desert.


Three Months on the Road: The Joys & The Growing Pains
As we reached the three-month mark, we took time to ask each other two questions:
What’s been your favorite part of life on the road so far?
And what’s been the most challenging?
Here’s where we landed.
Derek
Derek loves the simple things this lifestyle offers—being outside as much as possible, hiking and biking, soaking up sunshine, and enjoying warm weather he didn’t get nearly enough of in Duluth. The freedom to move and explore has been a huge win. The biggest challenges for him have been more practical: not having a great workstation makes workdays a little challenging and constantly needing to locate dump stations and potable water near our boondocking spots adds another layer of planning. We’re also learning that our current solar setup isn’t quite enough yet—something we’ll be improving as we go.
Trygg
Trygg hasn’t shared a lot when we’ve talked about life on the road, but when he does, his answers are thoughtful and honest. One of his favorite parts of this lifestyle has been homeschooling. While it’s been challenging for me at times, Trygg loves the flexibility—being able to take breaks when he needs them and finish his schoolwork in just a couple of hours.
He also loves visiting family and adding new, cool rocks to his ever-growing collection. No matter where we are, he’s always on the lookout for the next perfect rock to bring along with us.
The hardest parts for Trygg have been hiking (it’s definitely not his favorite activity) and missing his friends back home. Even with all the new places we’re exploring, those connections still matter deeply to him, and we’re learning how to help him stay connected while embracing this season together and finding ways to make new connections along the way.
Jillian
I’ve loved the slower pace of life, the family time, the warmth and sunshine, being outside daily, and exploring new places together. Finding beautiful boondocking spots never gets old—it’s one of my favorite parts of this journey. Homeschooling, on the other hand, has easily been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Some days are smooth, others feel overwhelming. Still, I feel hopeful. We’re learning together, finding our rhythm, and I truly believe it will get easier with time.
Another challenge I didn’t fully anticipate is how much I’d miss having a dedicated space to start my day—one that includes a workout and a quiet moment for meditation. In our small living space, my morning workouts often involve interruptions, being stepped over, or having someone walk right through the middle of my workout! As for meditation…let’s just say that routine has been completely abandoned for now. 😂 I’m hopeful this will improve if we eventually upgrade our rig, but in the meantime, I’m making it work, lowering my expectations, and laughing my way through the chaos.

As we ushered in the new year, we found ourselves pausing to take in all that 2025 gave us—and the blessings that have come with choosing this life. From selling our home and living on our boat, to finding our RV, hitting the road, exploring nine states, adjusting to life in a small space, navigating homeschooling, and spending more time with family than we ever imagined possible, this season has stretched us, shaped us, and is guiding us forward with a deeper sense of gratitude for what’s ahead. We know this life isn’t always easy, but we also know this: every challenge brings growth, every adventure adds to our story, and in the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take.















































































































